The large attack surface is a good point. I started using it initially and the ease of setting up a vpn was nice, but then I came across few security vulnerability postings which led to concern so I went to Wireguard. I think they should reign in the features and treat it as a secure vpn first and foremost and remove unnecessary features to minimize the attack surface.
If you want a hard-to-use VPN with minimal features and minimal surface area, as you said, Wireguard is right there. Tailscale is convenient Wireguard.
I use Wireguard for several site-to-site VPNs. It just works. I never have to worry about it, and there are very few configuration settings to mess up (unlike, say, IPsec, which is a nightmare.)
